Introduction
How many times have you been in a relationship where you felt like your needs weren’t being met? You kept trying to make it work, but nothing seemed to change. In fact, it got worse. Eventually, you learned that the only way to get what you wanted was by walking away from the relationship. The same is true for men when they find themselves with an emotionally unavailable woman: If they want their needs met by that woman, then they need to walk away and make her miss them dearly.
Create a little distance.
So how can you make him realize your worth?
- Create a little distance. The best way to do this is by making him miss you. If he knows that he can have you whenever he wants, then he won’t appreciate just how important and special that relationship is. You want him to realize how much better life would be with or without you in it–and creating distance will help motivate him into chasing after his greatest desire: being with the woman who makes his heart beat faster than ever before!
Be emotionally distant.
If he’s treating you badly and you want him to realize what he’s missing, the best way to do this is by being emotionally distant.
If you don’t let him know how much he is hurting you, then there’s no way for him to understand how much better off both of your lives will be once he treats you with respect and kindness again.
The same goes for showing that his words hurt; if he doesn’t know how deeply they cut into your heart, then there won’t be any reason for him not to continue saying them in the future. If you feel like you’re being taken for granted, sometimes the best thing to do is to walk away and make him miss you; absence can make the heart grow fonder and help rekindle a relationship.
Don’t be overly available.
- Don’t be overly available.
You are a busy person and you have other things to do, including hanging out with your friends and family, as well as pursuing your career or hobbies. You don’t need him in order for you to be happy, so don’t make yourself seem like an option for him at any time of day or night. If he wants to see you again, then he needs to make an effort toward that goal without being prompted by constant texts from you–and if he doesn’t want another date with you (or even just a friendly conversation), then let him go!
- Find someone better than him who will treat you right!
Don’t make yourself too available for his affection and attention.
Don’t make yourself too available for his affection and attention.
It’s great to want to spend time with the person you love, but it’s important not to be too available all the time. If you’re always available when he wants you or needs you, then he won’t have any reason to miss you when he doesn’t see or hear from you. This can hurt your chances of making him miss what he had before–and if he doesn’t miss what he had before, then why would he want more?
Show him you’re okay without him.
You can show him that you’re okay without him by not being overly available. This means not texting back right away, or making plans with friends and family instead of him. If he gets upset about it, let him know that you don’t have time for his drama right now–he should understand why you want to spend time with other people instead of always being around for him.
Another way to show your independence is by not getting caught up in his emotional dramas or letting them drag out longer than necessary because he doesn’t know how to deal with them himself (or maybe even just wants some attention). If he comes crying about something trivial like someone cutting him off on the road or getting fired from work, be supportive but try not to let yourself get too emotionally involved; if he continues acting like a child after repeated attempts at soothing his feelings has failed then walk away!
Don’t let yourself get caught up in his dramas.
Don’t let yourself get caught up in his dramas.
Don’t make yourself too available for his affection and attention.
Don’t be overly available to him, either.
If you want someone to notice how great you are, then walk away
If you want someone to notice how great you are, then walk away.
A lot of people make the mistake of thinking that if they’re too available and too emotional for their partner, then he will realize what a catch they are. But this is not true at all! In fact, being overly available can actually make him lose interest in you because it makes him feel like he doesn’t need to work hard anymore–he’s got everything he needs right there in front of him (you!). On top of that, if he knows that all it takes for your heartstrings to be tugged is some tears or an “I love you”, then why would he bother with trying new things? You’ve already given him everything he needs; now it’s time for something new!
A good way around this problem would be creating some space between yourself and your significant other by not going out with him as often or even stopping contact altogether until things start getting better between both parties again – but don’t forget: The key here isn’t necessarily cutting off communication completely; rather than making yourself unavailable entirely (which could lead into awkward situations later on), try keeping tabs on each others’ lives via text messages sent throughout each day/weekend instead so that when those times come around where either one wants company again (for example), then both parties know exactly where each other stands without having missed too much time together…
Conclusion
If you want someone to notice how great you are, then walk away. Don’t stay in a relationship with someone who doesn’t appreciate all that you have to offer and don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t see the value in what they could gain by being with you. You deserve better than that!
